How Do I Get a Divorce in North Carolina Based on Abandonment?
Full Question:
Answer:
There is no established time period for abandonment, but courts generally focus on evidence of an intent not to return. North Carolina has enacted guidelines (see link below) which establish the amount of support presumed to be correct. The court may deviate from the guidelines however, upon a finding that the application of the guidelines would be unjust or inappropriate under the particular facts of the case. If the court does deviate from the guidelines, it shall state its reasons for doing so in its order.
See also:
https://nddhacts01.dhhs.state.nc.us/GuideLines.jsp
http://www.rosen.com/divorce/divorcearticles/absolute-divorce-the-details/
The following are NC statutes:
§ 50-9. Effect of answer of summons by defendant.
In all cases upon an action for a divorce absolute, where
judgment of divorce has heretofore been granted and where
the plaintiff has caused to be served upon the defendant in
person a legal summons, whether by verified complaint or
unverified complaint, and such defendant answered such
summons, and where the trial of said action was duly and
legally had in all other respects and judgments rendered by
a judge of the superior court upon issues answered by a
judge and jury, in accordance with law, such judgments are
hereby declared to have the same force and effect as any
judgment upon an action for divorce otherwise had legally
and regularly.
§ 50-8. Contents of complaint; verification; venue and
service in action by nonresident; certain divorces
validated.
In all actions for divorce the complaint shall be verified
in accordance with the provisions of Rule 11 of the Rules of
Civil Procedure and G.S. 1-148. The plaintiff shall set
forth in his or her complaint that the complainant or
defendant has been a resident of the State of North Carolina
for at least six months next preceding the filing of the
complaint, and that the facts set forth therein as grounds
for divorce, except in actions for divorce from bed and
board, have existed to his or her knowledge for at least six
months prior to the filing of the complaint: Provided,
however, that if the cause for divorce is one-year
separation, then it shall not be necessary to allege in the
complaint that the grounds for divorce have existed for at
least six months prior to the filing of the complaint; it
being the purpose of this proviso to permit a divorce after
such separation of one year without awaiting an additional
six months for filing the complaint: Provided, further, that
if the complainant is a nonresident of the State action
shall be brought in the county of the defendant's residence,
and summons served upon the defendant personally or service
of summons accepted by the defendant personally in the
manner provided in G.S. 1A-1, Rule 4(j)(1). Notwithstanding
any other provision of this section, any suit or action for
divorce heretofore instituted by a nonresident of this State
in which the defendant was personally served with summons or
in which the defendant personally accepted service of the
summons and the case was tried and final judgment entered in
a court of this State in a county other than the county of
the defendant's residence, is hereby validated and declared
to be legal and proper, the same as if the suit or action
for divorce had been brought in the county of the
defendant's residence.
In all divorce actions the complaint shall set forth the
name and age of any minor child or children of the marriage,
and in the event there are no minor children of the
marriage, the complaint shall so state. In addition, when
there are minor children of the marriage, the complaint
shall state the social security number of the plaintiff and,
if known, the social security number of the defendant.
In all prior suits and actions for divorce heretofore
instituted and tried in the courts of this State where the
averments of fact required to be contained in the affidavit
heretofore required by this section are or have been alleged
and set forth in the complaint in said suits or actions and
said complaints have been duly verified as required by
Rule 11 of the Rules of Civil Procedure, said allegations so
contained in said complaints shall be deemed to be, and are
hereby made, a substantial compliance as to the allegations
heretofore required by this section to be set forth in any
affidavit; and all such suits or actions for divorce, as
well as the judgments or decrees issued and entered as a
result thereof, are hereby validated and declared to be
legal and proper judgments and decrees of divorce.
In all suits and actions for divorce heretofore instituted
and tried in this State on and subsequent to the 5th day of
April, 1951, wherein the statements, averments, or
allegations in the verification to the complaint in said
suits or actions are not in accordance with the provisions
of Rule 11 of the Rules of Civil Procedure and G.S. 1-148 or
the requirements of this section as to verification of
complaint or the allegations, statements or averments in the
verification contain the language that the facts set forth
in the complaint are true "to the best of affiant's
knowledge and belief" instead of the language "that the same
is true to his (or her) own knowledge" or similar variation
in language, said allegations, statements and averments in
said verifications as contained in or attached to said
complaint shall be deemed to be, and are hereby made, a
substantial compliance as to the allegations, averments or
statements required by this section to be set forth in any
such verifications; and all such suits or actions for
divorce, as well as the judgments or decrees issued and
entered as a result thereof, are hereby validated and
declared to be legal and proper judgments and decrees of
divorce. The judgment of divorce shall include, where there
are minor children of the parties, the social security
numbers of the parties.
§ 50-6. Divorce after separation of one year on application of either
party.
Marriages may be dissolved and the parties thereto divorced from the
bonds of matrimony on the application of either party, if and when the
husband and wife have lived separate and apart for one year, and the
plaintiff or defendant in the suit for divorce has resided in the State
for a period of six months. A divorce under this section shall not be
barred to either party by any defense or plea based upon any provision of
G.S. 50-7, a plea of res judicata, or a plea of recrimination.
Notwithstanding the provisions of G.S. 50-11, or of the common law, a
divorce under this section shall not affect the rights of a dependent
spouse with respect to alimony which have been asserted in the action or
any other pending action.
Whether there has been a resumption of marital relations during the
period of separation shall be determined pursuant to G.S. 52-10.2.
Isolated incidents of sexual intercourse between the parties shall not
toll the statutory period required for divorce predicated on separation
of one year.
§ 50-7. Grounds for divorce from bed and board.
The court may grant divorces from bed and board on
application of the party injured, made as by law provided,
in the following cases if either party:
(1) Abandons his or her family
(2) Maliciously turns the other out of doors.
(3) By cruel or barbarous treatment endangers the life of
the other. In addition, the court may grant the victim of
such treatment the remedies available under G.S. 50B-1, et
seq.
(4) Offers such indignities to the person of the other as to
render his or her condition intolerable and life burdensome.
(5) Becomes an excessive user of alcohol or drugs so as to
render the condition of the other spouse intolerable and the
life of that spouse burdensome.
(6) Commits adultery.
§ 31A-1. Acts barring rights of spouse.
(a) The following persons shall lose the rights specified in
subsection (b) of this section:
(1) A spouse from whom or by whom an absolute divorce or marriage
annulment has been obtained or from whom a divorce from bed and board has
been obtained; or
(2) A spouse who voluntarily separates from the other spouse and lives
in adultery and such has not been condoned; or
(3) A spouse who wilfully and without just cause abandons and refuses
to live with the other spouse and is not living with the other spouse at
the time of such spouse's death; or
(4) A spouse who obtains a divorce the validity of which is not
recognized under the laws of this State; or
(5) A spouse who knowingly contracts a bigamous marriage.
(b) The rights lost as specified in subsection (a) of this
section shall be as follows:
(1) All rights of intestate succession in the estate of the other
spouse;
(2) All right to claim or succeed to a homestead in the real property
of the other spouse;
(3) All right to petition for an elective share of the estate of the
other spouse and take either the elective intestate share provided or the
life interest in lieu thereof;
(4) All right to any year's allowance in the personal property of the
other spouse;
(5) All right to administer the estate of the other spouse; and
(6) Any rights or interests in the property of the other spouse which
by a settlement before or after marriage were settled upon the offending
spouse solely in consideration of the marriage.
(c) Any act specified in subsection (a) of this section may be pleaded
in bar of any action or proceeding for the recovery of such rights,
interests or estate as set forth in subsection (b) of this section.
(d) The spouse not at fault may sell and convey his or her real and
personal property without the joinder of the other spouse, and thereby bar
the other spouse of all right, title and interest therein in the
following instances:
(1) During the continuance of a separation arising from a divorce from
bed and board as specified in subsection (a)(1) of this section, or
(2) During the continuance of a separation arising from adultery as
specified in subsection (a)(2) of this section, or during the continuance
of a separation arising from an abandonment as specified in
subsection (a)(3) of this section, or
(3) When a divorce is granted as specified in subsection (a)(4) of this
section, or a bigamous marriage contracted as specified in
subsection (a)(5) of this section.